The 99-Year-Old Woman and the 100-Year-Old Man

Last Spring I was given a letter written to Jonas Jonasson, author of The 100-Year-Old-Man Who Climbed Out a Window and Disappeared. The letter, written on lined notepaper in a tiny, clear scrawl was from a reader in Montreal, “Mary.”

Mary had written to thank the author for his “wonderful” book. She could identify with Allan, the story’s hero, as she was 99-years-old herself and also did not want to celebrate her 100th birthday. “I cannot jump through a window because I live in an apartment on the 4th floor (not in an old people’s home).”

My first thought was that the letter must have been fake—perhaps a co-worker was playing an elaborate prank. It was just too perfect! A 99-year-old woman writing a letter about escaping her 100th birthday to the author of the The 100-Year-Old Man? I read the letter to a few people and each person reacted the same: we were all touched by Mary’s humour and spirit. “Somehow I’ll manage to escape.”

So I called her. Mary and I spoke about the book about how she reads with the use of a magnifying glass (instead of large print editions or eReaders) and really hit it off. Later, I’d call to see if she would allow us to use her letter in an ad. (We did. And the book soon became a #1 Globe and Mail bestseller).

Eventually, Mary and I were speaking a few times a month. She’d call and ask about my family and wedding planning (offering to step in if my fiancée had second thoughts); I’d send her books and call to see what she thought of them and how she was (some books she liked, others she definitely did NOT). Eventually my mother, my girlfriend and several of my co-workers started reminding me, “have you called Mary lately?”

IMG_1568_small This week Mary is turning 100 and she won’t escape celebrating after all. We’ve invited her into the office to celebrate with a birthday party the whole office will attend. Mary doesn’t drink so we’ll have juice and we’ll spell out “100” in cupcakes to celebrate both her birthday and the book that brought us all together. In fact, Jonas Jonasson has replied to Mary’s letter and we’ve produced a special, one-of-a-kind hardcover edition with both the author’s and Mary’s letter printed inside just for her.


In the intervening months I’ve heard from some of her family what our friendship has meant to her but I don’t think Mary knows what it has meant to me–and everyone I speak to about her. It’d be easy to say that Mary became a fill-in grandmother for me but she’s also a fellow book lover and a friend–sometimes we don’t even talk about books. I love her spirit, her self-effacing humour, how indomitable she is and wish everyone had the chance to meet her.

For more pictures from Mary’s 100th birthday party, check out the slideshow below.

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UPDATE #1: In April, 2014, Mary read Jonas Jonasson’s new novel, The Girl Who Saved the King of Sweden and had some choice words that inspired another great ad…

UPDATE: On August 28th, 2014, Mary turned 101-Years-Old! Cory celebrated with her the weekend prior:


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23 thoughts on “The 99-Year-Old Woman and the 100-Year-Old Man

  1. YAY!!! Happy, happy birthday, Mary!!

    Thank you for doing this, Cory (and all the awesome HCC employees!!). I have wondered about Mary, since you shared her letter last year, and I am so glad to read about your developing friendship with her, and Mr. Jonasson’s appreciation. The special edition you created is lovely. I am sure it will be treasured.

    This is just such a happy-making story. 🙂

  2. Cory, you are amazing! You have given my grandmother one of the BEST gifts she has probably ever received in her life. Turning 100 (and living on her own!) is such a feat, never mind looking so great, being so witty and having the energy that she does. The fact that you have celebrated her life and her whole persona is fantastic. She has been through many things in her life (many we hope never to experience). Thank you so much for your generosity, love and kindness. May we all live to be remotely as amazing as (who we call) “GG” (for Great Grandmother).
    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart,

    1. Hi Aimee!

      It is more than our pleasure–trust me. Your Great Grandma is a really special lady who means a lot to us. I really do love her spirit (and wit!) and I think she’s got a place in the office Hall of Fame now. She’s really reminded us of the best part of our business.

  3. Happy Birthday Mary!! What a lovely thing you did for Mary, Cory. I remembering reading her letter when you first talked about it. It brought a smile to my face and a tear to my eye. But today, reading about your friendship with Mary over the last little while, and the obvious caring you both feel for each other, it made my heart fill up with joy. Thank you so much for sharing this amazing story. Both you and Mary are class acts. It was lovely to see how much Mary’s letter was appreciated by Mr. Jonasson and that he took the time to write her a personal note, that went with the specially bound copy of The Hundred Year Old Man. Awesome!

    1. Thanks Mary Ellen. I’m glad you liked it. She’s a great, great person. Definitely lucky to know her.

  4. Happy Birthday Mary!
    Great post, Cory! Loved taking some time today to read it. Sounds like such a great friendship and glad you and everyone else could do something special for her. Read Mary’s letter too. Loved it! It put a smile on my face. 🙂

  5. Love this – well done Cory! Happy birthday Mary! You’re clearly 2 very special people 🙂

  6. Absolutely loved your story Cory! Yes books do connect people across age, language, social status and so many other things. Years ago when I left my own country and landed on a different continent with no family and friends in all these moments when I felt really lonely I always went to the bookshops. I looked at all these books that I recognized from years of reading at home and I immediately felt at home. I had a point of reference and a point in common with all those new books and new readers in this new to me country. A lot of my best friends are people whom I met through my love of reading.

    1. It is so so true, Anna. Easy to forget sometimes so I’m really grateful when someone like Mary finds a way to remind me.

  7. This is such a wonderful, heartwarming story! Reading truly does bring people together, no matter the age. Your birthday present to Mary was so thoughtful; I hope you all continue to be friends for a long time to come 🙂

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